Distance Dating: Maybe Ga anyway

Anyone who has ever undergone long-distance courtship, believe me, they would have immediately said that maintaining such relationships will be difficult buangett .. But despite such circumstances, long-distance dating is not impossible to dijalanin even strong survive and added over time if you know how!

   1. Step 1
      Talk alone with a girlfriend, how you will overcome the problem of communication during the separation. You both need to have an agreement during this long-distance courtship. This agreement will greatly help your relationship with the him that guns often miscommunication and misunderstanding. How many times a year you will meet and how often telponan in a day are some of the topics to be points in the agreement between you and him. If such things are already clear, you can continue to update the news each and will be more comfortable ngejalaninnya.
   2. Step 2
      Everyone always needs friends anytime and anywhere. You are guns could be there every day for him, and he was so into you, can provoke the need for new friends who often tails so, Äùgodaan, Äù. So before you apart in distance, make a deal with your boyfriend about relationship, Äùpertemanan, Äù this. Restrictions need to be made and agreed. But do not let only one party agrees aja. Berkompromilah! All there must be a solution deh ..
   3. Step 3
      Level of closeness as a couple who declined to be familiar style of a friend, could provoke the emergence of doubts about the sense of affection. Do not be alarmed if this happens. Fair kok, every couple who had undergone annual relationship must experience it. Well, the point is not directly respond to excess so that affect emotions and alter your views about your relationship. Discuss wrote with boyfriend about what you think. Who knew he also was down in the mouth of the same thing tuh!
   4. Keep the key close
      At the end,, Äújangan surrender, Äù is the key word that makes any relationship work well. Although long-distance relationship was difficult, but still always possible to do loh! Spirit!

Pent-up longing

Months turned into monthsday by dayI miss you herein each hari2ku you're always therebut why are you never there for meif you do not know how I long for your affection that had been awaydo not you let this longing buried foreverbecause I could not hold it allhadirlah love yourself in each my timeDo not you get out of my lifebecause kusangat miss your affectiondirimulah only hope my lifeyou hear the cry of my heart that more and more and miss youI MISS YOU Darling

Commitment to undergo long-distance relationship

Men and women alike have difficulty when they have to undergo separation, particularly through long-distance relationship. It takes a serious commitment to choose to undergo a separate relationship of distance and time. Career, school, and family separation can be a factor between two lovers. But do not think that long distance relationship will never succeed.
 According to research from the Center for the Study of Long-Distance Relationships, a long distance relationship is doomed to fail is a myth. Even met in America, more than 700,000 couples get married eventually LDR. All depends on how you and your partner to address this situation. No one said that through it will be easy, but not too impossible. The five tips below might help. 
1. Explain the expectations from the beginning 
Do not beat around the bush, plan future early on. According to Drs. Greg Guldner, director of the Center for the Study of Long-Distance Relationships, which distinguish between pairs of successful and unsuccessful underwent LDR are: basic rules. Dr. Guldner explains, about 70% of LDR couples who did not manage since the first agreement, the average break after 6 months. Surely the most important thing to do is talk about the basic rules, such as: whether the relationship is exclusive, or open? Any number of times a day to give the news, via e-mailkah, whether via SMS? When will the schedule met?
 2. Express Yourself 
Couples who live nearby have often had difficulties to meet and express their love. So imagine how difficult it LDR couples face to face let alone touch. Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages for Singles said, "It is important to know how to make your spouse feel appreciated and loved. Especially in words. For example, 'If you're on my side today, I'll give you a kiss on the forehead'. "He also suggested to share the stories of everyday facing the pair. This should be done to maintain closeness, so that when you and your partner met there are things that can be told and avoid circumstances that make you feel like a stranger. 
3. Enjoy your freedom 
Life is too close to the couple can be a difficult thing for each can grow personally and professionally. Living separately is difficult, but it gives us a personal space to grow but remain in a relationship. As time went on, you will learn the attitude and the nature of each partner, until in the end if you decide to live together, it no longer becomes a "sacrifice" but a compromise. 
4. Create a more enjoyable 
You can make things more fun by making a few surprises for the him. Able to give gifts that are sent at any time. It is important to make it feel that you are thinking of him. But keep in mind: give the distance of time. Do not let him feel you are bombarded. Give gifts that are made personally, such as books that have long wanted him to read, the video contains a message, chocolate that you created yourself, both your photos, key pendant, made your own poem, bergrafir jewelry, flowers containing the message, and others. The more personal the gift you make, the greater the impact will be received by the him. 
5. Believe
 Indeed, LDR is not easy, but the lingering negative thoughts will only spend the energy. Instead of complaining because I never met, it is better to talk about interesting things for you both. The more you be happy on your relationship and he, happiness will come your way. Dr. Guldner says, the failure of LDR is generally just a misunderstanding. Couples break up because a lot of things. From 10 years of research he was doing, the distance is not one of the main reasons for the causes of relationship breakdown. In fact, distance can make the liver more closely because of mutual longing. Relationship expert who often appears in the Oprah Winfrey Show, Dr. Phil, said that if it really love someone, you will be willing to wade everything to be together with him.