Jumat, 03 Desember 2010

Distance Dating: Maybe Ga anyway

Anyone who has ever undergone long-distance courtship, believe me, they would have immediately said that maintaining such relationships will be difficult buangett .. But despite such circumstances, long-distance dating is not impossible to dijalanin even strong survive and added over time if you know how!

   1. Step 1
      Talk alone with a girlfriend, how you will overcome the problem of communication during the separation. You both need to have an agreement during this long-distance courtship. This agreement will greatly help your relationship with the him that guns often miscommunication and misunderstanding. How many times a year you will meet and how often telponan in a day are some of the topics to be points in the agreement between you and him. If such things are already clear, you can continue to update the news each and will be more comfortable ngejalaninnya.
   2. Step 2
      Everyone always needs friends anytime and anywhere. You are guns could be there every day for him, and he was so into you, can provoke the need for new friends who often tails so, Äùgodaan, Äù. So before you apart in distance, make a deal with your boyfriend about relationship, Äùpertemanan, Äù this. Restrictions need to be made and agreed. But do not let only one party agrees aja. Berkompromilah! All there must be a solution deh ..
   3. Step 3
      Level of closeness as a couple who declined to be familiar style of a friend, could provoke the emergence of doubts about the sense of affection. Do not be alarmed if this happens. Fair kok, every couple who had undergone annual relationship must experience it. Well, the point is not directly respond to excess so that affect emotions and alter your views about your relationship. Discuss wrote with boyfriend about what you think. Who knew he also was down in the mouth of the same thing tuh!
   4. Keep the key close
      At the end,, Äújangan surrender, Äù is the key word that makes any relationship work well. Although long-distance relationship was difficult, but still always possible to do loh! Spirit!

Pent-up longing

Months turned into monthsday by dayI miss you herein each hari2ku you're always therebut why are you never there for meif you do not know how I long for your affection that had been awaydo not you let this longing buried foreverbecause I could not hold it allhadirlah love yourself in each my timeDo not you get out of my lifebecause kusangat miss your affectiondirimulah only hope my lifeyou hear the cry of my heart that more and more and miss youI MISS YOU Darling

Commitment to undergo long-distance relationship

Men and women alike have difficulty when they have to undergo separation, particularly through long-distance relationship. It takes a serious commitment to choose to undergo a separate relationship of distance and time. Career, school, and family separation can be a factor between two lovers. But do not think that long distance relationship will never succeed.
 
According to research from the Center for the Study of Long-Distance Relationships, a long distance relationship is doomed to fail is a myth. Even met in America, more than 700,000 couples get married eventually LDR. All depends on how you and your partner to address this situation. No one said that through it will be easy, but not too impossible. The five tips below might help. 

1. Explain the expectations from the beginning 
Do not beat around the bush, plan future early on. According to Drs. Greg Guldner, director of the Center for the Study of Long-Distance Relationships, which distinguish between pairs of successful and unsuccessful underwent LDR are: basic rules. Dr. Guldner explains, about 70% of LDR couples who did not manage since the first agreement, the average break after 6 months. Surely the most important thing to do is talk about the basic rules, such as: whether the relationship is exclusive, or open? Any number of times a day to give the news, via e-mailkah, whether via SMS? When will the schedule met?
 2. Express Yourself 
Couples who live nearby have often had difficulties to meet and express their love. So imagine how difficult it LDR couples face to face let alone touch. Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages for Singles said, "It is important to know how to make your spouse feel appreciated and loved. Especially in words. For example, 'If you're on my side today, I'll give you a kiss on the forehead'. "He also suggested to share the stories of everyday facing the pair. This should be done to maintain closeness, so that when you and your partner met there are things that can be told and avoid circumstances that make you feel like a stranger. 
3. Enjoy your freedom 
Life is too close to the couple can be a difficult thing for each can grow personally and professionally. Living separately is difficult, but it gives us a personal space to grow but remain in a relationship. As time went on, you will learn the attitude and the nature of each partner, until in the end if you decide to live together, it no longer becomes a "sacrifice" but a compromise. 
4. Create a more enjoyable 
You can make things more fun by making a few surprises for the him. Able to give gifts that are sent at any time. It is important to make it feel that you are thinking of him. But keep in mind: give the distance of time. Do not let him feel you are bombarded. Give gifts that are made personally, such as books that have long wanted him to read, the video contains a message, chocolate that you created yourself, both your photos, key pendant, made your own poem, bergrafir jewelry, flowers containing the message, and others. The more personal the gift you make, the greater the impact will be received by the him. 
5. Believe
 Indeed, LDR is not easy, but the lingering negative thoughts will only spend the energy. Instead of complaining because I never met, it is better to talk about interesting things for you both. The more you be happy on your relationship and he, happiness will come your way. Dr. Guldner says, the failure of LDR is generally just a misunderstanding. Couples break up because a lot of things. From 10 years of research he was doing, the distance is not one of the main reasons for the causes of relationship breakdown. In fact, distance can make the liver more closely because of mutual longing. Relationship expert who often appears in the Oprah Winfrey Show, Dr. Phil, said that if it really love someone, you will be willing to wade everything to be together with him.

Sabtu, 20 November 2010

Tips for Keeping Distance Dating Relationships

1. Send SMS ('Bad')

Sex over the phone is quite simple. But as a warm try to start by sending sms 'naughty' and flirty. This can be done as a stage of testing and see how he responds. If he writes something sexy back to you, it's a sign you've got the green light. If he does not respond, or ask, maybe come clean that you want something from him would be way more apt to engage him by phone only.
2. Conduct Preparation


Take your time to find the most comfortable zone. Start by exchanging text messages sexy. With teksting sex you have time to think about his response. Get used naughty words cast a sexy and seductive. You have to prepare themselves reveal the words that could make him aroused. Use as part of the body as a familiar nickname for you and your partner sex organs.
3. Foreplay (Warming)

Do foreplay that can make flying fantasies imagined as if you really are beside it. Start with clothes. Ask him what clothes he was wearing, and tell him you want to see her without clothes, or ask what he would do if you take her clothes off. Think about how sex is usually started, and talked about everything that could make her passion burn, ranging from kissing, removing clothing, touching its vital parts, and others.
4. Take it to the next level

Probably will utilize existing facilities in the feature phone. Such as using 3G, or perform naughty acts via webcam. Some women find that webcam sex phone sex long distance makes the activity more satisfying. With video you have, the option to not only talk to people about what he would do, but really show him what you do for yourself.

Sabtu, 30 Oktober 2010

Keeping Distance Love Relationship

They say long-distance love relationship or a long distance relationship lasting many never succeed. When in fact, long-distance love relationship is like with ordinary love affair.
Love is a feeling that can come to anyone, anytime. But, what if you and your partner are in a remote place? To see him just have to take at least 2 to 3 months or even years. Like what many experienced by friends of BMI in Hong Kong. Split with husband who was in the ground water, or with the idol of the heart that much was in the neighbor country, Korea or Japan. Certainly not need a lot of sacrifice?
Here are most felt was the loneliness that hit when leaving the city where your loved one is located. Then what would you do if that happened?
For long-distance relationship was not an easy job and a lot of obstacles. Often, the problem is the way of meeting and parting. To cope with such disappointment, the most important is to make some sort of routine every time you visit and when you are far apart. Routines will help you to normalize your feelings and make time drift unnoticed.
Love involves two people who want to share a life together, watching each other and look after each other. Both are certainly hope the relationship can continue to grow. Long-distance relationships also have the same opportunity with a successful love relationships at close range. The difference, long-distance relationships do require special treatment. What should you both to prepare before doing long-distance love affair?
Specify parameters 
Before you set to continue love remotely, specify the parameters you want and how commitment both to 'take and give. " Try to understand each other, so there is no misunderstanding.
Maintain communicationIn a long distance relationship, saying 'presence will make love grow' do not apply. Therefore, communication plays an important role to maintain the continuity of love together. If you do not want to swell phone bills, you can use e-mail, sms and chat rooms.
Set meeting schedule 
The meeting will be a happy and most awaited moment, after so long apart. Make the meeting as a venue for further identification. Set the frequency of meetings for romance flame remains lit, for example once a month or two months.
Keeping commitments 
Do not think love will continue to grow by itself. For love still requires attention and communication that must always be fostered, before differences arise due to the greater distance apart.
Tell your life 
Although separate, but it could not hurt to tell and share information about your activities and your friends around you.
Maintain confidence 

Trust is the most important factor in carrying out long-distance love affair. If the trust began to fade, then your relationship in danger. Suspicious of the pair is even worse. Alert is a step in a more sensible than the suspect. (Jenirwan)